Thursday, January 5, 2012

My Cat named Mrs. Momma

It is time to let the "cat" out of the bag.  My cat, is named Mrs. Momma....
Starting Monday, I will be homeschooling all my children.  Let me elaborate just a bit because I KNOW what most of you are thinking....WHAT THE H...E... double hockey stick is she thinking?
If you would have asked me 6 months ago what I thought about Homeschooling my kids I would have laughed in your face at the thought.  It was something I have never considered.  Then "it" happened.  What is "it" you might ask.  I don't even really know.  It is that feeling you get in church when it is Fast and Testimony Meeting when your heart is pounding out of your chest and you just KNOW you have to get up there and testify of what you KNOW to be true.  I KNOW this is the right thing for our family right now.
  I do want to be clear on something...this has NOTHING to do with Pathway.  I LOVE Pathway and their staff.  All three of my kids have AMAZING teachers that I adore.  Which makes this even harder for me. (emotionally)
 Erick and I have prayed and prayed and prayed and talked and talked and talked.  I have spoke with all my kids teachers as well as the Principal and have full support and understanding from all of them.  How amazing is that?
You might ask, "what about the social aspect?" to which I reply....Um  Have you met my kids?  That is the least concern that I have with this.  I have spent coutnless hours doing research, talking to other Moms that homeschool, visiting their homes, reading books etc.  I knowwhat I am getting into.  I am not naieve to think it is going to be rainbow's and glitter all the time. I know this will be a challenge for all of us.  I know that I am giving up all my "free" time during the day every day and guess what...I can't wait!  The way we have been living is crazy!  I have 5 kids, 4 of which are involved in a lot of things combined.  Everyday is a rat race.  Every day we are rushing and rushing and going and I am yelling and frazzled and busy.  We do a lot yes, but the QUALITY is not there.  I need quality with my children.  I need time with my children.  I need to KNOW my children.  This will give me that opportunity.
 I do not know how long we will do this.  It may only last 2 weeks!!  I am not afraid to admit when I have made a mistake.  We may go back to school next year.  We may be Homeschoolers for life! I do not know what the future holds.  What I do know is that both Erick and I feel a great deal of PEACE with this decision.  We know we are making the right decision for our family.
 So I need to ask something of you my friends and family.  Please, trust me.  Trust that I know what is best for my children who I would do ANYTHING in this world for.  Please, hold off on any negative comments whether they be on my blog, FB or in a converstaion with someone else.
I am sorry for those of you on FB that I strung along with this but I needed to go to the kids school and let their teachers know what we were doing before I put anything out there.  You are probably feeling let down at the big announcement! :) sorry! haha!
A new adventure is on our Horizon...I am excited at the possibilities with my children.  I will keep everyone posted at how things are going!  So starting Monday between the hours of 7-12 if you have to call me...call me Mrs. Momma. ;)

14 comments:

~ Lacey ~ said...

Hey....nothing negative in thought or word here. :) I homeschool all of my children and I LOVE IT!!! Our family has been so much closer with it and I do feel as if I know my children better, than I did prior. There is more peace, and a sense of safety, in our home. I am all for it!!! I will be honest, it is HARD at first, but hang in there because it gets better and easier. I think it is wonderful news! Best of luck to the Farabee Family in their new adventure!!!

Amanda said...

Good for you! I relate in a huge way! I am not quite ready to give up all my mommy time yet, so we are finishing up this year and then probably moving this summer and then starting next year. What curriculum are you going to use? We are still deciding! I'm excited for you!

Sarah Mickalson said...

I looked into homeschooling many times. If i had a more stable home life and finances I probably would homeschool....but I never know if I need to start working to pay the bills. Good luck, you will do amamzing

Jeff, Jack & Sadie said...

Doing what is best for your family is never a wrong thing!! You will love working with Jen... She is amazing...

Memory said...

I can't tell you how many times I have considered this! The opportunity you have to enrich your kids education is amazing. I don't think I'm quite there yet, but who knows what the future holds. I think that you can totally do this. You are such a great mom and I think your kids will totally thrive! Good luck! Let me know how it goes! :)

April Hardy said...

I am so envious of you! This is something that I wish I could do. Maybe one day it'll be right for us too. :) good luck. This is such a popular choice these days and so I am surprised people still think negatively about it. Go Mrs. Momma!

Kathryn said...

Hey, no complaints here. I think it sounds like a great choice. But I know what you mean, people have strong opinions about homeschooling. I love your attitude going into it. And even if you only do it 2 weeks, it was still probably the right answer for now.

Who knows, one day I might be a homeschooler too.

virginia canister said...

I support you 200%. Not that you need my ssupport. I know you will be great at it. You are great at everything you do and especially great at all things to do with your kids. You are such a wonderful mommy.

The Ulrich Clan said...

Hooray for you!!!!! It is a huge adventure, and even if it doesn't work out, I don't think that you will ever regret trying it out! I loved having ALL of that time with my kids. It was NOT AT ALL easy, but,it was certainly worth it. Good luck to all of you and enjoy it!

karina said...

I will not sugar coat my comment.
It will be hard. It will push you to question every soft whispered answer of your prayers, BUT, I have a feeling you will dig down deep and get it done- with grace. xoxo.


"A leader, once convinced that a particular course of action is the right one, must....be undaunted when the going gets tough." Ronald Reagan

TammeNBen said...

I hope your family gets out of it what you want. Homeschooling is so different then when we were kids. There is so much more out there.

The school district we live in even plays a homeschooled volleyball team and they are pretty good!

Good luck!

john:and:aim said...

Good for you, Molly!

Katie said...

Good for you! Good luck with your adventure. It sounds like the right thing for you for sure.

Kim said...

Good for you Molly! I saw your post awhile back mentioning homeschooling and thought that might be your cat! :) you'll do amazing!!!
Btw I just got caught up with your blog and your birth story with lyndee is so beautiful. Love it. And love seeing my favorite dr ever! Dr Falk :)
I'm sad too to never be pregnant and birth another baby. But excited about this new chapter in mommy hood. Love ya Molly :)